I’ve also had the
good fortune of finding excellent in-laws.
They, too, truly care about my little family. Like my parents, they carry our needs in
their hearts and minds, and do everything they can to help my wife and me when
we need it. I’m certain nobody has
better parents or in-laws than I do.
Then there’s my
wife. I love my wife very deeply. She works so hard to make sure our marriage
is the best it could be. She constantly
searches for ways to be a better mother, and she is already a great
mother. Most importantly, she loves the
One True God and seeks to serve Him in all she does.
But my little
girl is the one that my thoughts dwell on most.
I have the cutest little girl in the world! (I confess I might be heavily biased with my
opinion on that.) This little one is so
much fun to watch as she chases the cats around, waves bye-bye to the cars
driving past our front window, and romps around the house making messes with
anything she can find. She has such a
deep love for life and fun, and it’s endearing.
Watching this little girl makes it
incredibly easy to understand why the Savior carries such a deep love for
little children. It’s easy to understand
why He would rebuke His disciples, insisting they allow the little children to
come to Him and be blessed. (The New
Testament, Matthew 19:13-15) It’s also
easy to understand why He would come to the people of America and spend
considerable time blessing all the little children in the congregation. (The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ, 3 Nephi 17)
As I’ve been thinking about my young one this
week, I happened to read a talk given in the last General Conference of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Elder Shayne Bowen, one of the general authorities of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, spoke to the congregation and addressed
those who had lost a little child. He
spoke about the loss of a little child in his family and how it tore at their
hearts.
He continued to
speak of the pain he felt and the anger that followed. But he turned to the Lord in prayer and
faith, asking for an ability to cope with the loss. Through personal spiritual experiences, God
helped him overcome the feelings of loss and helped him find hope in the
promise of seeing the child again when he himself would leave this world.
In the beginning
of this talk, Elder Bowen spoke of a woman he met while serving as a full time
missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He and his companion spoke with the woman
about the age of accountability.
Members of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints turn to revelation in The Book of
Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus
Christ (Moroni 8), The Doctrine and Covenants of The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-day Saints (D&C 137 and 138), and other supporting scriptures
to learn that little children are not held accountable before God until they
reach the age of eight. God has declared
children who reach the age of eight have enough understanding to know the
difference between good and evil. They then
become accountable before Him for that which they know.
This woman had
lost a child several years earlier. The
leader of a local church had informed her this child was condemned to an
eternal state of limbo because he hadn’t been baptized. For many years she lived with grief because
she believed this was true. Many
children die during birth or before they can be baptized. And unfortunately many parents live with
guilt because they have been taught these children cannot enter the rest of the
Lord because they weren’t baptized.
Yet this teaching
contradicts the love Jesus has demonstrated for little children. Jesus the Atoning One sacrificed everything
for the inhabitants of the world, making it possible for them to come again
into the presence of the Eternal God. How
could the Loving Christ make this sacrifice and fail to make it possible for
children, whom He loves so much, to return to God simply because they weren’t
baptized, especially when so many don’t even have a moments opportunity to be
baptized?
It defies all
logic and reasoning to believe this could be the case. I know it isn’t the case. The sacrifice Jesus made accounted for little
children. He made it possible for little
children under the age of eight to enter into the rest of God without
baptism. He loves these children more
perfectly than we do and He wouldn’t fail to make sure they had hope in Him
just as the rest of the world can have.
His atonement saves them.
To read the talk given by Elder Bowen, visit http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/10/because-i-live-ye-shall-live-also?lang=eng.